Monday, February 27, 2012

Top 30 Books Every Young Influencer Must Read

It's almost a platitude that reading always had inspired influencers to grow. If you want to know which top books every young influencer/ leader should read, please read below. You can download here the survey results in the PDF format. Below is what Jason Young and Daniel Decker embarked to create the recommended list of books. 
  • Over 200 people completed the survey, each sharing their top 5 recommended books. 
  • That’s nearly 1000 books we combed through and put into a simple, easy to read, downloadable PDF. We listed the books by “Vote” which is basically how many times the book appeared or was recommended overall throughout the survey. 
  • While the survey respondents varied by all types of backgrounds, the results slanted more from the perspective of those involved with some aspect of ministry. This is primarily due to the number of people in the ministry space who retweeted the survey link. 
  • While we were looking for traditional books for the results of this survey, it’s also worthwhile to note that the Bible was the #1 suggested resource overall.

Here's the Top 30 that made the list:

Good to Great, Jim Collins
The Next Generation Leader, Andy Stanley
How to Win Friends & Influence People, Dale Carnegie
The 21 Irrefutable Laws Of Leadership, John Maxwell
Tribes, Seth Godin
Linchpin, Seth Godin
Never Eat Alone, Keith Ferrazzi
Crazy Love, Francis Chan
The 5 Dysfunctions of a Team, Patrick Lencioni
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen Covey
Spiritual Leadership, Oswald Sanders
Axioms, Bill Hybels
Getting Things Done, Dave Allen
The Magic of Thinking Big, David Schwartz
The Dip, Seth Godin
Visioneering, Andy Stanley
Made To Stick, Dan & Chip Heath
Rework, Jason Fried
The Energy Bus, Jon Gordon
Outliers, Malcolm Gladwell
The Principle of the Path, Andy Stanley
Courageous Leadership, Bill Hybels
Mere Christianity, CS Lewis
Radical, David Platt
A Million Miles in a Thousand Years, Donald Miller
The Future of Management, Gary Hamel
Developing the Leader within You, John Maxwell
The Leadership Challenge, Kouzes & Posner
Now Discover Your Strengths, Marcus Buckingham
E-myth, Michael Gerber

Thursday, February 23, 2012

Living in the Present Tense

I stumbled across a poem that profoundly struck a chord with me. I think others may think likewise. What amazes me is that this poem is written by a 14 years old Jason Lehman. I wonder how can someone at such a young age could think of such profound and philosophical perspectives. Lehman sent a letter to Abigail Van Buren who verified Jason's age and published the poem on her column on February 14, 1989. Please take several minutes to meditate on this. 

Present Tense

It was spring, but it was summer I wanted,
The warm days, and the great outdoors.
It was summer, but it was fall I wanted,
The colorful leaves, and the cool, dry air.
It was fall, but it was winter I wanted,
The beautiful snow, and the joy of the holiday season.
It was winter, but it was spring I wanted,
The warmth and the blossoming of nature.
I was a child, but it was adulthood I wanted,
The freedom and respect.
I was 20, but it was 30 I wanted,
To be mature, and sophisticated.
I was middle-aged, but it was 20 I wanted,
The youth and the free spirit.
I was retired, but it was middle-age I wanted,
The presence of mind without limitations.
My life was over, and I never got what I wanted.


How can you live in the moment? I find myself having a period of quiet time helpful which enables me to become more aware of the present and focus on living a purpose-driven life.

Gallup's Q12 Employee Engagement Findings


After one year of work, 70% of U.S employees feels they are not engaged at work. To be exact, only a sheer 33% of employees are actively engaged, 49% not engaged, and 18% actively disengaged. This study emerges from arguably the most comprehensive research from the foremost consulting firm Gallup Organization. In order to find the right questions, they fundamentally focused on how great managers inspire top performance in employees. How do they generate passion, unite disparate personalities to focus on a common purpose, and propel teams to achieve ever-higher goals? 

With this question, Gallup embarked on decades long journey including more than 10 million employee and manager interviews spanning 114 countries and conducted in 41 languages. The results of this is a book called 12: Elements of Great Managing. In essence, the book distills 12 elements that has the most impact on the bottom line. 

I hope you'll find the insights below helpful in your role as a manager and employee. If you are interested to explore more of the 12 elements, Gallup Management Journal has created a website with stories and insights into each one. Please click here for more information



Q01. I know what is expected of me at work.
Gallup’s research shows that many great workplaces have defined the right outcomes; they set goals for their team members or work with them to set their own goals. They do not just define the job but define success on the job. For team members to be aware of their expectations, they should have a way to rank, rate, or count as many of the desired outcomes as possible. Also, these measures of performance should fit with what the rest of the organization is saying and doing.

Q02. I have the materials and equipment I need to do my work right.
Based on Gallup’s extensive research, great managers find out what people need in the way of materials and equipment; place the responsibility for this on the team members; and make sure team members know how to earn the right to certain materials and equipment. A great way for team members to increase their responsiveness to this question is to determine what “materials and equipment” means to them. Sometimes they are referring to accessibility of information, rather than specifically to materials and equipment.

Q03. At work, I have the opportunity to do what I do best every day.
For this item, it is important to keep each team member’s talents in mind, to build relationships, and to help others identify their unique talents. It is vital that every individual understands his or her strengths and weaknesses. A good way of promoting this is to discuss what each person believes his or her leading strengths are, in terms of skills, knowledge, and innate talents. Writing these strengths down often helps.

Q04. In the last seven days, I have received recognition or praise for doing good work.
Workplaces that excelled in this question relied on forms of recognition that are specific, predictable, frequent, and instantaneous. They are known to promote a recognition-rich environment, with praise coming from every direction, and with everyone knowing how others like to be recognized. Many wonder how often people should be praised, but a good rule of thumb is about once a week. If this seems too often, consider why frequent praise is so important. Whenever a person does something, there are consequences. Those consequences will affect whether team members engage in that behavior again. We know that to get the results or consequences we want, frequent praise can encourage the behavior that produces it.

Q05. My supervisor, or someone at work, seems to care about me as a person.
Remember, people leave managers, not companies. A productive workplace is one in which people feel safe — safe enough to experiment, to challenge, to share information, to support each other, and where the team members are prepared to give the manager and the organization the “benefit of the doubt.” None of this can happen if team members do not feel cared about. Relationships are the glue that holds great workplaces together.

Q06. There is someone at work who encourages my development.
In this case, “development” does not mean getting people promoted. It does not mean each team member gets what he or she wants. It means helping individuals find roles that fit their natural strengths: their unique combinations of skills, knowledge, and talent. Previous Gallup findings have concluded that workgroups that receive high scores on this particular item do not try to put in what was left out, but rather, try to draw out what was left in; they provide constant feedback; and they find creative developmental opportunities for each other.

Q07. At work, my opinions seem to count.
Team members who give high scores on this item feel they have access to channels of communication across different levels or divisions of the organization, and their managers work to maintain those channels. Groups do not function very well when the team members in them feel insignificant or irrelevant. Managers ask team members for their opinions and include their ideas in the decision-making process whenever possible. This means everyone should have a chance to express his or her

Q08. The mission or purpose of my company makes me feel my job is important.
This question measures a key source of motivation for team members — the idea that their organization represents values that they themselves share. Effective workplaces cultivate that feeling, including providing constant clarification of the overall mission of the organization, as well as the ways in which each individual team member contributes to the achievement of the mission. As human beings, we like to feel as though we belong. Individual achievement is great, but we are likely to stay committed longer if we feel we are part of something bigger than ourselves.

Q09. My associates or fellow employees are committed to doing quality work.
Workgroups that score well on this question tend to be good at providing clear quality standards and keeping those standards at the forefront of team members’ minds. Thus, team members are capable of accurately evaluating their own performance, as well as that of their teammates. Clear communication of standards enhances accountability and builds trust among coworkers. We also know that not everyone will see “quality” in the same way if everyone’s concept of the word is different. To remedy this, having a clear definition helps. The best place to start is with customers, both internal and external.

Q10. I have a best friend at work.
I have a best friend at work” is really a proxy for trust. We are interested only in whether there is a person at work whom you would consider a best friend “at work”. Think about people whom you would consider “best friends.” People with whom you share values, you can trust, and who are watching out for you. You are going to feel more confident in making decisions, taking risks, and being more productive because you don’t have to spend a lot of time watching your back. Chances are, you’re going to feel like there is more open communication within your team

Q11. In the last six months, someone at work has talked to me about my progress.
One of Gallup’s most consistent research findings has been that feedback improves performance. High-scoring groups establish structured feedback processes for their team members, which include clearly defining goals and achievement levels, and then meeting regularly with each team member to track his or her progress toward those goals. We realize that we all need feedback to know how far we have come. We need signs to track our progress.

Q12. This last year, I have had opportunities at work to learn and grow.
Engaged team members need to feel that their job contributes in some way to their professional or personal development. Great workplaces are those in which team members are provided with educational opportunities that address their development — this may include formal classes or simply finding new experiences for them to take on. Each team member will define “opportunities” differently. For some team members, this may mean training classes and seminars; for others, this means promotions and increased responsibilities; and for others, this might mean working on special projects or assignments.


 I created a PowerPoint presentation that illustrates the above elements of great managing. I hope you'll find it helpful. Enjoy! 

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Jeremy Lin, Tim Tebow and the Gospel

Linsanity, Linderella, Linvincible, and Super Lintendo…these are just the several of many nicknames of what many call a “miracle.” This miracle is “J Lin “ – Jeremy Lin – the undrafted point guard from Harvard who has emerged from seemingly nowhere and reached stardom with his Asian American descent and most notably his outspoken Christian faith.  Just less than a month ago, the Harvard graduate was buried on the bench and crashing on friend’s couches. Stadium security guards mistook Lin for a team trainer. In the last six games, however, Lin has become a household name, after six straight winning games – the latest of which ended on a buzzer-beating, game winning shot by Lin.

Some sportswriters have dubbed him the Taiwanese Tebow. In fact, the parallels to the Tim Tebow the Broncos quarterback is not surprising since these two have two similarities: first, the team seems to go on winning streaks with the presence of the member and second, both of their unwavering belief to their Christian convictions. Interviewers have noticed this similarity and Lin was soon inundated with questions with NFL Christian counterpart. Here’s what he had to say:

"Actually a lot of inspiration just because he's such a polarizing figure but I think the things he says in interviews, his approach to the game is just unbelievable and I respect him so much. I want to be able to do some of the things that he does in terms of the amount of charity work and the non-profit work, and the way he impacts people off the field. I think that is what is most inspiring to me about him."


Jeremy Lin has already figured out the most important part of his life, namely his why he is here on earth and values that guide him to become indefatigable. Unlike others in the sport industry who wants to make him/herself into an idol, Lin says how we is utilizing basketball as a mean for glorifying God and propagating the Good News. Just listen.



As a Christian, it is difficult to conceal my genuine enthusiasm when I see brothers and sisters in Christ who are in the world but not of the world, making strides by glorifying Lord Jesus.

SOBERING REFLECTIONS

In all this media hype today of “Linsanity” and “The Mile-High Messiah,” here’s some sobering reflections that I’d like to share:

Trust in the gospel, not heros: As a follower of Christ, it is inspiring and emboldening to see how God is raising up modern-day Joseph (and Esther). But as Psalms 118:8-9 advises us, “It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in man. It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in prices.” As little Christians, Psalm 20:7-9, “some boast in chariots and some in horses, but we will boast in the name of the Lord, our God.” I find myself sometimes excited more about the craze of the attention public Christians get and how they are going to make a difference in the world. Yes, God does use His vessels for the glory of God, but should we think that these extraordinary means are what we need Christian impact to take place? Certainly, everyone has a place in His unique story.

Be emboldened by outspoken Christian figures, not discourage you
: I certainly do agree that as a Christian we have every reason to cheer on brothers like Lin and Tebow who God has richly blessed. We must be careful, however not to replace them as our Lord Jesus Christ. As each one of us are the body of Christ whom we are called to propagate the Gospel, we must not be discouraged that we do not have a greater testimony like Lin or Tebow. I really liked how someone said that the power of the gospel has never been in the vessels who herald the message, the power is always in the word itself.

Pray: Finally, let’s pray for Jeremy Lin, Tim Tebow, and other public Christians who are under enormous pressure to perform, constant scrutiny and temptations. May Lord guide their hearts from pride and arrogance. Let them become as wise as serpent and innocent as dove. Let’s continue to pray for their families and friends who will support them.

Above all, Jeremy Lin and Tim Tebow’s stories are compelling. It has attracted the attention of the world. It will be very interesting how the story will unfold in the future, but as Christians, let’s continue to pray that God will shine the light of His glory into this newfound fame.

Here’s a testimony from Jeremy Lin where he talked about his spiritual journey. Quite a story. [Part 1 & 2]  






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For more on Lin's life and faith, see "Jeremy Lin, Faith, and Ethnicity" and "The Faith and Fate of Jeremy Lin." 

David Mathis and Tony Reinke provide a nice quote from Jeremy Lin, where he talks about what God has taught him from Philippians 3 about basketball and the greater prize that is found in Christ — All Sphere Even Pro Basketballs of Life —

For Jeremy Lin's favorite Christian music, click "Jeremy Lin Music Picks"

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Maximizing Your Life Through Joining the Strengths Revolution

MY STRENGTH-INSPIRED JOURNEY

Ben Franklin's Translation: "Hide not your talents.
They for use were made. What's a sundial in the shade?"
About few years ago, I served as the HR Director at my business school’s student society. One of my key agendas was to ensure we had the right recruitment and selection process in place so that the student executive team could, as Jim Collins put it, place the right people on the bus, wrong people off the bus, and the right people in the key seats before they figure out where to drive the bus. In this quest of designing the process, I came across an interview question that hit me like a brick:  

“If you were to write your epitaph, what would you say?” 

 I clearly remember myself dumbfounded as I struggled to articulate a sound answer. The heart of the question is a question that asks what your mission in life. Why are you here on earth?

After several years of intentional, considerable thought, I formed the following mission statement. (Click here to discover how to develop a personal mission statement)

I strive to serve, equip, and transform people and organizations into Christ-centered vessels for the utmost glorify of my Lord Jesus Christ.  (Revised Feb 1, 2012)

While this statement resonated with my purpose in life, it fell short of what I now consider my ultimate aim.

I remember a story of a professor who while working on his paper met a particular young lady. She has been in one of the classes the professor teaches at UCLA. They had talked many times about her life, future, and relationship with God. As the professor was thinking about this young woman, he sensed an inner prompting from God’s spirit to call her, so he did. She had moved out of state to take a job in the Midwest. The professor was interested to know what she was doing, about her relationships and how her career was going. As she reflected on her life, she made one statement that captured what the professor wanted to bring about as he worked with college students.

Here is her statement: “You know, I’m doing what I was created to do! And, I love it!”
Can you imagine anything more magnificent than to be able to say, “I’m doing what I was created to do! And, I love it!”

How can people declare that what they are doing is in fact what they were created to do unless they first discover what capacity they were endowed by God? Too many people live their life without an iota of awareness of these God-given strengths, gifts, and talents. It’s not too late embark on this life-fulfilling journey. 

THEOLOGY OF STRENGTHS

Let's explore now what the Scripture teaches about the strengths-based approach. God clearly mandates us to discover, harness, and unleash our strengths which is living in accordance to the purpose which God created us to be. We must start with the question by asking the existence of God. If we believe God exists, is He is the Creator? Did God create us? Did He created us with an intention, a purpose in mind? If so, He would most certainly have created us with the abilities and the capabilities to do His will. The issue then becomes: Will we seek to discover and develop our God-given talents and abilities into powerful, effective strengths? Ultimately, will we elicit the strengths and our will under Christ Jesus to be empowered by the Holy Spirit for worship of God and to live in accordance with the example of Jesus Christ so that we accomplish the purpose for which He created us?

Several passages in the Scripture points to essence of strengths-based development:
So God created humankind in his image,
in the image of God he created them;
male and female he created them...

God saw everything that he had made, and indeed, it was very good. 
- Genesis 1:27, 31a
In the book of Jeremiah in the Old Testament, we find this:
Now the word of the Lord came to me saying,
"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you,
and before you wer eborn I consecreated you;
I appointed you a prophet to the nations."
- Jeremiah 1:4-5
I really like how Dr. Anderson’s propositions, assumptions, beliefs and reasoning that forms the theology of strengths:

  1. There is a God.
  2. He is a creator God
  3. God creates with intentionality. He has a purpose, reason, and plan for what He creates.
  4. God created people with various talents and abilities.
  5. The talents and abilities God crated in us are inextricably linked to God’s will, God’s purpose, God’s plan for our lives
  6. The talents and abilities has given us are part of what will enable us to fulfill His plan of our lives: to fulfill His will for us.
  7. Strengths develop from the talents and abilities God has given us. God-given talents and abilities come first. Strengths stem from the way God created and endowed us.
  8. God is a creator God who continuously works in our lives to form us into the persons He wants us to be.
  9. Talents and abilities develop into strengths through a combination of relationships, interactions, life experiences, and opportunities to grow and through instruction which God sometimes orchestrates and which He can always use to fulfill His purposes in our lives.

STRENGTHS VS. TALENT

Gallup Organization, renowned for it’s strength-based development, defines “strength [as] the ability to consistently provide near-perfect performance in a specific activity. Talents are naturally recurring patterns of thought, feeling, or behavior that can be productively applied. Thus, the equation for a strength can be reduced to as:

Talent x (Knowledge +Skills +Time spent) = Strength

Here’s a simple illustration of how to understand the differences. You may be drawn toward strangers and enjoy the challenge of developing a relationship with others. This is talent. On the other hand, having the ability to consistently build a network of supporters who know you and prepared to help you is a strength. To make the critical transition from talent to strengths,


 Highly informative overview of strength-based approach from Carolyn Foster

THE MYTH OF WEAKNESS PREVENTION

In my early age, I’ve always heard that it’s a virtue to be “well-rounded.” Raised in the Korean cultural heritage, along with multifaceted societal pressures have reinforced the guiding vision of being a well-rounded person. Hence the oft-quoted proverb, “the nail that sticks up get hammered.” In hindsight, it became obvious that I've been living with this “weakness prevention” model which still exists in me after years of efforts overcome.  Numerous studies in positive psychology shed light that contradicts weakness prevention model. Gallup Organization, renowned for it's pioneering research into human potential over the past 30 years – including interviews with more than 2 million people have made the following statement: 

“The evidence is quite overwhelming. You will be most successful in whatever you do by building your life around your greatest natural abilities rather than your weaknesses.”

Jack Zenger, leading consultant in strength-based development talks 
about building strengths or fixing weaknesses.


MANAGING YOUR WEAKNESS
Buckingham and Clifton define a weakness as "anything that gets in the way of excellent performance."  They suggest five strategies to manage weaknesses as you strive to build your life around your strengths: 
  1. Hunker down and get a little better at it (whatever the weakness is).
  2. Design a support system that will stop you from worrying about a weakness so you can spend more time thinking about how to refine a strength.  For example, if you are not naturally organized, your support system could be as simple as a weekly appointment with yourself to clear your desk and file papers away every Friday before you leave the office.
  3. Use one of your strongest themes to overwhelm your weakness.
  4. Find a partner to handle the areas that are not strengths for you.
  5. Acknowledge that this is not an area of strength for you and simply stop doing it.

In the next upcoming blogs, I will focus on the “how” of intentionally harnessing and unleashing your strengths so you will find yourself fulfilled and used as God's glory. Stay tuned!